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Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all! True! But we all seek love and friendships to avoid loneliness. Using an online Christian dating service is proving more and more popular as many like minded Christians are developing successful friendships and relationships through the internet. Loneliness is an emotional lack of meaningful relationships. It’s natural for us to want to share our lives with people we love. You can refuse to let loneliness dominate your life by calling on God. Remember! It was he who created love and taught us how to practice love. Sign up to an online Christian dating service and make a start to improving your life.

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Searching for love through a Christian dating service will change your attitude and build your confidence. You need courage to overcome your fear of rejection and you need courage to reach out to other people. Ask God for courage and start searching for love and friendships through a Christian dating service. Bring joy back in your life, and join many other fellow Christians seriously looking for love, friendship and marriage.

Start by thanking God and praise him for his being and his loving kindness as David did in Psalm 142. He will use the pain of loneliness and move you into a deeper relationship with himself and others. An online Christian dating service will allow you to share your faith and what you learn from God while also being a platform to learn new ideas and gain advice. God passes on his wisdom, you can do the same!

Blessings of the Lord are necessary to create successful relationships, for as someone once said:

“It takes three to make a marriage work”

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Question by The: Why do so many Christian women have premarital sex when God clearly says that it’s a sin?
Anyone who says that I am singling out women for not saying “Christian men and women” will be blocked. I’m tired of people saying that.

Personally, I’m so sick and tired of meeting Christian women at my college as potential dating partners/spouses, but then finding out that they have done sexual things in the past. Is it too much to ask that I, being a chaste virgin, should require the same thing?

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Answer by Moderate Somber
The Quran only prohibits adultery. Adultery is not premarital sex, it is sex outside of marriage while you are still married. People often call that cheating.

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    ACTION Magazine..October 1954..PAGE 11…the KINSEY REPORT and YOUR WIFE..remember that no woman is AVERAGE .. (Love is blind and marriage restores your sight) ….
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    Kinsey (Alfred Charles Kinsey..June 23, 1894 – August 25, 1956) is generally regarded as the father of sexology, the systematic, scientific study of human sexuality. He initially became interested in the different forms of sexual practices around 1933, after discussing the topic extensively with a colleague, Robert Kroc. It is likely that Kinsey’s study of the variations in mating practices among gall wasps led him to wonder how widely varied sexual practices among humans were. During this work, he developed a scale measuring sexual orientation, now known as the Kinsey Scale which ranges from 0 to 6, where 0 is exclusively heterosexual and 6 is exclusively homosexual; a rating of X, for asexual, was added later by Kinsey’s associates.

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    Kinsey and sexology….The Kinsey Reports…Main article: Kinsey Reports

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_Reports

    In 1935, Kinsey delivered a lecture to a faculty discussion group at Indiana University, his first public discussion of the topic, wherein he attacked the “widespread ignorance of sexual structure and physiology” and promoted his view that “delayed marriage” (that is, delayed sexual experience) was psychologically harmful. Kinsey obtained research funding from the Rockefeller Foundation, which enabled him to inquire into human sexual behavior. His Kinsey Reports—starting with the publication of Sexual Behavior in the Human Male in 1948, followed in 1953 by Sexual Behavior in the Human Female—reached the top of bestseller lists and turned Kinsey into an instant celebrity. Articles about him appeared in magazines such as Time, Life, Look, and McCall’s. Kinsey’s reports, which led to a storm of controversy, are regarded by many as an enabler of the sexual revolution of the 1960s and 1970s. Indiana University’s president Herman B Wells defended Kinsey’s research in what became a well-known test of academic freedom.
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    The 1948 first edition of Sexual Behavior in the Human Male, the first of the two Kinsey reports.
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    Detail of Time cover, August 24, 1953. Under Kinsey’s name, the caption reads “Reflections in the mirror of Venus.”
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    …..item 2)……web-site… PBS.org ..Kinsey in the News

    Sexual Behavior in the Human Male | Sexual Behavior in the Human Female

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    …… Sexual Behavior in the Human Female (1953)

    In the five years between the releases of Kinsey’s two reports, America completed its evolution from postwar victor to Cold War combatant. With the spectre of nuclear destruction hovering over the world, individuals like Senator Joseph McCarthy parlayed fears of Communism into political power and personal attacks on those in the opposition, who were smeared as un-American. A middle-class ideal of security and family life emerged in this domestic revival.

    At a time when American society seemed under attack, Kinsey’s report on women was received like another torch on the bonfire. Although some welcomed the report as a necessary tool for education and understanding, outrage crested over the report’s implications for American womanhood. A congressional committee launched an investigation into Kinsey’s and his funders’ possible connections to the Communist Party, and the Indiana professor soon lost his research funding.

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    ….. Time, August 17, 1953

    Kinsey for Lutherans

    With Dr. Alfred Kinsey’s new book Sexual Behavior in the Human Female almost ready for publication, Missouri Synod Lutherans are preparing a kind of Kinsey report of their own. In 1950 the church’s Triennial Convention appropriated ,000 for a 25-man research team to investigate Biblical references and Christian teaching on marriage and family life and what Lutherans think and do about it… Among the preliminary findings:

    Only 16% of young Lutheran bachelors (age 16-20) admit to sexual intercourse (whereas Kinsey found that, among non-churchgoing Protestants in the same age bracket, 90% of grade-school-level males, 80% at high-school-level and 45% at college level had premarital intercourse)…

    64% of married Lutherans, but only 36% of the clergy, approve the use of contraceptive devices…

    There was disagreement between laymen and clergy on what causes family dissension. Said the laity: finances, in-laws and disputes over child-training. Said the clergy: drink, sex, and religion.

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    ….. Newsweek, August 24, 1953

    …Kinsey’s report on men was hailed with enthusiasm by some physiologists and philosophers and attacked with equal fervor by others. Any individual’s attitude depended on whether he accepted Kinsey’s basic notion that man’s biological behavior is dictated by biological needs and subject to the same biological rules that govern lower animals…

    …[In the Female Report], in concise and easy-to-read language, Kinsey batters at some contemporary ideas about the female’s slower sex responsiveness, her earlier sex development, her greater extent of erogenous (sexually sensitive) zones, and her emotional reactions in sex relations… one thing strikes Dr. Kinsey as outstanding: “… the range of variation [of sex behavior] in the female far exceeds the range of variation in the male.”

    …The slow destruction of the double standard of sex behavior, Kinsey reasons, has resulted from freer consideration of sex matters in our times: the “emancipation” of the female, increased knowledge of contraception, anonymity of persons living in urban areas, control of venereal infection, draft armies which allow American men and women to observe foreign cultures, and drives against organized prostitution (which have drastically reduced the frequency of male contacts with prostitutes, and increased, correspondingly, the frequency of contacts with females not for direct hire.)

    Controversy Coming

    The female volume is bound to be a controversial book. Kinsey and his associates have made a contribution to man’s limited scientific knowledge of human sex behavior. By presenting an immense mass of evidence, gathered by empirical investigation, they have given their concepts a certain statistical validity, but it is subject to limitations and possibly misinterpretations imposed by a purely materialistic approach.

    Inevitably, the new book will bring protests from those who perceive the workings of morality as opposed to plain animal desire in sex and from scientists who may not approve of the doctor’s method of collecting his case histories…

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    …… Time, August 31, 1953

    K-Day

    In London last week, the world’s biggest daily, the tabloid Mirror (circ. 4,432,700), got out its three-inch type for a single banner headline: WOMEN… K-day — the prearranged release date for a summary of [Dr. Alfred Kinsey’s] book on Sexual Behavior in the Human Female (Time, Aug. 24) — set off the biggest and raciest commotion the world’s press had seen in years…

    Hearst papers generally gave the story maximum play, while simultaneously cluck-clucking on their editorial pages. Hearst’s New York tabloid, the Daily Mirror, which seldom passes up any story with a sex angle, explained to its readers that it ran this “supposedly… scientific effort [because] we felt we could not become overpious and fail to publish it.” Scripps-Howard editors had local option on how to handle the story, e.g., the San Francisco News ran only an explanation of why it was leaving Kinsey out (“This is adult reading”), while Denver’s Rocky Mountain News cut out the data on the teenage petting. Other editors had more trouble figuring out euphemisms for Kinsey’s clinical explanations…

    Some editors did their best to keep the story going, with follow-ups on what women thought about Kinsey. Many readers were indignant. The Great Bend, Kans. Tribune got so many protests “from religious groups and… individual readers” that it stopped a five-installment series with the first and swore off: “No more Kinsey.”

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    ….. Collier’s, September 18, 1953

    How DR. KINSEY’S Report on Women May HELP YOUR MARRIAGE

    by [marriage counselor] Dr. Emily Hartshorne Mudd with Bill Davidson

    …For the first time, as a result of [Kinsey’s] work we have facts based on they systematic observation of large numbers of people; previous pioneers in the field — mainly Sigmund Freud and Havelock Ellis– had instead given detailed reports on individual cases. With the publication this month of the new Kinsey Report on the sexual behavior of 5,940 women, we professionals are buttressed by even more scientific fact, by additional statistically valid averages and patterns…

    Education is Urgently Needed

    Besides using the Kinsey Report on women as a yardstick for the average (as we did with the first report) we will also use it more broadly — to educate people. Such education is badly needed. We have actually had hundreds of cases where neither the husband nor the wife realized that women are capable of any sexual response. There are many wives who consider their husbands unfaithful because they are aroused by outside stimulation, such as pictures of other women. Dr. Kinsey’s new report will show these brooding wives that nearly all men react strongly to nudity, thoughts of other experiences and so on — and that their mental stimulations help the man respond to his wife as his immediate love object…

    It’s not surprising that Dr. Kinsey’s Sexual Behavior in the Human Female is being described as one of the most controversial books of our age. Fundamentally, it is a magnificent piece of basic research which will be used by scholars for years to come as a jumping-off place for further studies. It and its companion volume give us the fullest set of facts we have at the moment on the subject of human sexual behavior. We still don’t understand the implications of some of the facts; others may be disproved later on; and we may never find a practical application for much of the material. But the book should make us at least review some of the codes and mores that were set up before we knew the facts.

    Certainly the new Kinsey Report should bring happiness to far more people than it may hurt, and it could even change important aspects of our culture. Several of my colleagues have commented, “Don’t be surprised if in the next few years you see a quiet revolution in America, with more and more thinking parents encouraging their children to marry very young — to spare them the frustration of having no permissible sex outlet during the peak years of their desires.”

    If this and other significant changes do take place in our culture, it will be difficult to believe that people once asked: “Why would an important scientist like Dr. Kinsey spend fifteen years of his life studying a distasteful subject like sex?”

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    Letters to the Editor

    ….. Time, September 7, 1953

    Can’t buy our Aug. 24 Time: our newsstands sold out. All holier-than-thous want to read your report on Kinsey’s book. Be prepared for indignant letters to the editor.
    Captain and Mrs. C. N. Beecham
    Wichita, Kansas

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    ….. Time, September 14, 1953

    You are to be complimented on giving such a comprehensive account… Dr. Kinsey feels that the information he has gathered will help people to plan for happier marriages. I believe he is right…
    Elizabeth Rosser
    Chicago, Illinois

    Any man who could get that much straight forward information from one, let alone nearly 6,000 women, should be Time’s Man of the Year.
    R. C. Tomlinson
    West Orange, New Jersey

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    ….. Collier’s, October 16, 1953

    I want to commend you on your article… I have been married 19 years and my husband took at least half of those years to learn a few of the things that Kinsey sets down so clearly. Thank you for a fearless article and one which I am sure will help people.
    (Name withheld)
    De Kalb, Illinois

    I am no prude or saint, and Alfred C. Kinsey can publish his report on Sexual Behavior in the Human Female, but why your magazine should stoop to the low level of publishing a summary of this report is beyond me.
    Loren A. Bates
    Jackson, Mississippi

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    ….. Look, October 20, 1953

    I read the article on Dr. Kinsey’s report with disgust. He takes a so-called survey of a few American women with bad morals and sets them up as an example of typical American womanhood…
    Mrs. Chester Lyons
    Cedar Lake, Indiana

    Dr. Kinsey is to be congratulated for pioneering in the study of a perilous subject: woman. His work will serve as a kicking-off point for hundreds of scientific studies. Yet, I wonder if anyone will ever succeed in categorizing these unpredictable creatures.
    Bill Smith
    Chicago, Illinois

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    ….. Collier’s, October 30, 1953

    I think congratulations are in order to Dr. Emily Hartshorne Mudd and Bill Davidson for showing the proper relationship between the book and education. Instead of merely reviewing the findings, they have made them practical for education by showing the information workable.
    Mrs. James Knowles
    Detroit, Michigan

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    This is not the Parthenon frieze you are looking for… (April 2011)
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    Low relief frieze from the Parthenon at Athens, installed after the temple was converted to use as a church. The building commonly called the Parthenon today was originally built to house the colossal chryselephantine statue of the patron deity of the city of Athens. It remained in this role for about 980 odd years, before being converted in the mid sixth century to Christian use as the main Cathedral of the Theotokos of Athens – Theotokos Atheniotissa. The building remained a church for about 900 years until conversion to a mosque in the mid 15th Century. Some scholars prefer a date in the mid fifth for the conversion to a church (ie before the edict of Theodosius) which would give the Parthenon about 900 years of life as a pagan temple and a full 1,000 years of life as a church. Being in favour of the counterintuitive I would prefer the building to have spent a millennium as a church.

    It quickly became a big pilgrimage site, and was even visited by Basil II (the Bulgar Slayer) for him to give thanks after the Battle of Kleidion / Klyuch. There are a great number of Christian-era graffitos recording all aspects of Athenian life, scratched into the walls and the columns of the temple during its life as a Church.

    The sculptured decoration is presumably from the inside of the apse which was inserted into the temple for converting it. The exterior view is given in the explanatory image behind the frieze. Under the frieze, some Christian-era inscriptions are preserved, and I have done my best to transcribe them.

    The photo was taken in the Byzantine and Christian Museum of Athens in mid-April on a Canon G9 and was processed (mainly keystone correction) and tagged in GIMP.


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      Question by notasnowballs_chanceinhell: How to meet Christian men to date that aren’t gay but aren’t just horny guys saying “Yay Jesus”?
      Seriously, I have some handicaps. I’m celibate by choice, five foot one, and 210 lbs. I am working on that, and if you are going to post rude comments or imply that I should stay home and stuff myself in a dark box until I come out 115 lbs and horny, well… Ya, um… everybody’s entitled to their opinion, I just won’t be considering yours. LOL

      So, I don’t believe in sex before marriage, or even making out, etc. I’m serious about the Lord, and I am a single parent. I work full time, but I’m not rich, and I have debt I’m paying on, and I live with my Dad because my kid needs him around in order to not be a little hoodlum. Apparently just having me around wasn’t working. So this is working.

      So, I work at a preschool, and I go to church twice a week, and on occassion, I go to a bigger church in the next town. I talk to lots of people, just most of them are married. Or they see me as invisible because of the weight factor, or something. I have had men approach me, but it’s usually when I’m in my tshirt and jeans, and when I get all dressed up, I couldn’t get more invisible. LOL So I’m apparently not hideous looking. I just am not date material, I guess. So far the only men attracted to me are my Dad’s age (I am 35), or they have something inherently wrong with them, like they are an unmedicated paranoid schizo, or they like to rape children, or they have been clean and sober a whopping ten days (Yay, but let’s not go out until you’ve been sober a year, ok?). I know I’m picky, but let’s be honest here… I don’t have anybody to be picky about!!!!

      Suggestions?
      Tried Christian dating websites : Eharmony- lots of matches from other states (that’s kind of silly), or guys that were looking for or willing to have sex before marriage, tried several other sites, chat rooms, MySpace, Tagged, craigslist, you name it. Tried the grocery store, tried going to other churches… Starbucks… I keep meeting sex fiends, or wierdos.

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        Question by Andie: All the single Christian ladies…are you happy too?
        We live in a relationship-minded society, in which singles are portrayed in movies as lonely TV-dinner-eating cat owners with longings for a special person to make them whole. Within churches especially, there seems to be a surge of singles groups and Christian dating services. Within this culture, there seems to be little room for the single 30-ish Christian woman who is actually happy with her life as it is. When people find out that I am 30 years old, not in a relationship (and not actively searching for one), and actually happy, I tend to get variations of the following reactions:

        “You can’t really be happy. You must be in denial.”
        “Oh, you’ll know what happiness is when you’re married, dear.”
        “Single? Really? Why do you have relationship phobias?

        I acknowledge the joy that can come with marriage, and I am happy for my friends who are happily married. But I wonder if I am really so rare. Surely there are other women out there who are not jaded by negative past relationships, but rather simply love their lives and do not feel the need to join a singles group to feel fulfilled. Well…are there?

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        Answer by SJC
        I am perfectly happy being single.

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